Yesterday I asked y'all to post a comment on how much you honestly would pay for yourself if you was a barbie or action figure. Kali reasponded & I wube you for it. She said she would be legos! Very creative!
Kali's comment:
I'm def some legos. Different colors... Different sizes. Sold in different size boxes so you can't give me a $ amount. For a couple bucks I'll throw ya a couple hundred blocks. Your gonna pay extra for the Red Blocks though.
I would be a barbie I would charge some racks for me... I would be life size but anatomicly incorrect [sorry pervs] lol and I would come with real hair and would promote for you! I would also come with a G1 and hella shoes! Lmao
But seriously. Some of us don't really know how much we are worth. Low self-esteem? Or self worth issues? Is there a difference? I think so...
I see self esteem as a feeling that make some people do the lowest things. They probably were told their whole life that they were beautiful untill junior high when puberty hits. Then the kids tease. I know in junior high I got teased because I didn't have the filas or addias jacket and because I was two skinny. But over time I learned my self worth. Even though threw relationships I have been brought down. But I have always known that I am worth more and deserve better.
I think that's what allows me too leave the relationships and allows me to be happy in life.
Anyways....
Yeah... lol
Now I'm stuck on wat to say...
I think I have A.D.D because I was distracted by a thought.
*sigh*
xoxo
-tay
Showing posts with label self esteem. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self esteem. Show all posts
Monday, November 16, 2009
how much?
If you coud buy yourself, how much would you pay? honestly?
I'm not talkin bout in a hoe type way but if there was a barbie or action figure for you... how much would you pay?
Please leave a comment and say how much you would pay. Don't leave a cocky comment talkin bout "I'm the shit I wud charge more than anyone cud ever make" okay glad you feel that way but be realiistic.
Ima write a blog tomorrow on self worth. I'm not asking for this info to put anyone down tomorrow. I just want to know.
xoxo
-tay
I'm not talkin bout in a hoe type way but if there was a barbie or action figure for you... how much would you pay?
Please leave a comment and say how much you would pay. Don't leave a cocky comment talkin bout "I'm the shit I wud charge more than anyone cud ever make" okay glad you feel that way but be realiistic.
Ima write a blog tomorrow on self worth. I'm not asking for this info to put anyone down tomorrow. I just want to know.
xoxo
-tay
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
Ladies, ladies, ladies!
Ladies, ladies, ladies!
What are we doing to ourselves? I see stupidity and insecurities everyday. I ain't here to judge. I'm guilty of being insecure and stupid at times. But you live and you learn right?
Can we please stop letting these men run all over us? Its funny when we say "where all the good men at?" Yo! How are you gonna get a good man when you ain't even good yourself? You don't love your self, and have no self esteem... so you go fuck anyone and everyone who says hi to you.
My male friends point out stuff in my friends all the time and tell me not to be like them. "That one gives off the vibe of a hoe, you can tell by the way she dresses" ladies... baby phat and apple bottom is not to be worn if over 18! Real talk. Apple bottom does cater to us ladies with more junk in the trunk but to do have to rock the cheapest looking pair? Its called hoodrat wear! Step your clothes game up. You don't have to be a label whore. There are places' like forever 21, love couture, or H&M...
"That one is thirsty for male attention, she keeps smiling in everyones face" smiling in every niggas face that says hi to you is lame! Let them chase you! Okay smiling is good but ladies you know when you do that lil dip, n stick out some certain body parts and giggle to everything they say... stop! Come on you know you doing to much. Just be you and be confident! There's some one for everyone.
"She keep going threw his stuff, if you dig deep, you might find something you don't like" I've looked n looked and found stuff I didn't want to see. Most womens excuses are [even mine was] "well if he didn't give me a reason I wouldn't have to" true... BUT what if there wasn't anythig ever there. You just tore a rift in your solid relationships over an insecurity you had... possibly from a past relationship? Its hard not to bring the past into the future... but if you can't move forward from the past... you shouldn't be in this new relationship. He souldnt have to pay for his mistakes.
"If he cheats once, he'll do it again" we all know this is true! But why get mad at the female he cheated on you with? 4 times outta 5 she didn't know shit about you. My ex husband told a female I was his roomate! Now here were my insecuirties and stupidity came into play... the first time he cheated on me I continued to be with him, while stupidly thinking he would change which that thinking gave me a false sence of secuirty.
We can take back our dignaty and self esteem.. don't let anyone bring you down! Be solid, hold yourself down and your kids if you have any. Hopefully you are in that relationship soo great that nothing I wrote matters.
"Pussy is not the most powerful thing, the way we love is the most powerful thing"
What are we doing to ourselves? I see stupidity and insecurities everyday. I ain't here to judge. I'm guilty of being insecure and stupid at times. But you live and you learn right?
Can we please stop letting these men run all over us? Its funny when we say "where all the good men at?" Yo! How are you gonna get a good man when you ain't even good yourself? You don't love your self, and have no self esteem... so you go fuck anyone and everyone who says hi to you.
My male friends point out stuff in my friends all the time and tell me not to be like them. "That one gives off the vibe of a hoe, you can tell by the way she dresses" ladies... baby phat and apple bottom is not to be worn if over 18! Real talk. Apple bottom does cater to us ladies with more junk in the trunk but to do have to rock the cheapest looking pair? Its called hoodrat wear! Step your clothes game up. You don't have to be a label whore. There are places' like forever 21, love couture, or H&M...
"That one is thirsty for male attention, she keeps smiling in everyones face" smiling in every niggas face that says hi to you is lame! Let them chase you! Okay smiling is good but ladies you know when you do that lil dip, n stick out some certain body parts and giggle to everything they say... stop! Come on you know you doing to much. Just be you and be confident! There's some one for everyone.
"She keep going threw his stuff, if you dig deep, you might find something you don't like" I've looked n looked and found stuff I didn't want to see. Most womens excuses are [even mine was] "well if he didn't give me a reason I wouldn't have to" true... BUT what if there wasn't anythig ever there. You just tore a rift in your solid relationships over an insecurity you had... possibly from a past relationship? Its hard not to bring the past into the future... but if you can't move forward from the past... you shouldn't be in this new relationship. He souldnt have to pay for his mistakes.
"If he cheats once, he'll do it again" we all know this is true! But why get mad at the female he cheated on you with? 4 times outta 5 she didn't know shit about you. My ex husband told a female I was his roomate! Now here were my insecuirties and stupidity came into play... the first time he cheated on me I continued to be with him, while stupidly thinking he would change which that thinking gave me a false sence of secuirty.
We can take back our dignaty and self esteem.. don't let anyone bring you down! Be solid, hold yourself down and your kids if you have any. Hopefully you are in that relationship soo great that nothing I wrote matters.
"Pussy is not the most powerful thing, the way we love is the most powerful thing"
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