positions

"How do you want it?"
I think Tupac said it best. Even though in the song he's talkin about something kinda different, just the thought of him whispering that in my ear turns me on! Ladies?! Am I right? Lmao

This sex post is about POSITIONS! The things that make sex that much better! I know someone who never tried anything but missonary! And I know someone who didn't know what missonary was! Wtf... its the boring position... to me it is. Lol soooo ima list some positions, discribe them, how to do them and if I can find some pix ima post them.
[NON-PRONOGRAPHIC EITHER.... PERV lol]
So let's get started!
*if you are under 18 leave now*

Missonary:
This is the normal position. Girl on her back and the guy is on top.

The twist:
The girl turns to her side and wraps her leg around the guy. Then the guy enters on top or from the side.

Girl on top:
This is the guy on his back and the girl is on top. This is a position that gets the girl to orgasim quicker because it hits the G-Spot.

Cowgirl:
This is another position when the girl is on top but she is on her feet instead of her knees. Like she's "droppin it low" in the club.

Backwards cowgirl:
Basically just like above but the girl is now facing the males feet.

Legs over the shoulders:
This is a deep penitration position. Bring the girls legs up while she is on her back and put them over your sholders and enter!

Butterfly:
This position, the girl on her back, crosser leggs like indian style and enter. Another deep penitration position.

The bulldog:
This is the NORMAL doggie style. The girl is on her hands and knees and the guy enters.

Doggie style 1:
The girl is on her knees but her stomach is on the bed/floor where ever lol and her ass is in the air.

Doggie style 2: advanced
The girl is in a push up position. You are standing up behind her and she wraps her leggs around you and you hold them.

Kneeling 69: advanced
The guy is kneeling and the girl is upside down. Please try if you are strong. You are basically doing this on the floor.

I have tons-o-more positions in my kinky little mind. But ion wanna give away my moves. Lol but ladies rock your hips in bed PLZ! Don't just lay there and moan... not cute. And guys when we say "DON'T MOVE! YOUR RIGHT THERE" DON'T EFFN MOVE! GOSH! Otherwise... have fun... play... try new things and foreplay is great... ummm next post? Yes I think so...plus who wants to dip there fondue stick into dry chocolate? I wouldn't. Lol

xxoxoo
-tay

lets talk about sex: oral sex

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meme

Hahaha this is my "meme" hahaha
It sounds dirty to me... maybe my mind is in the gutter...
But "meme" reminds me of "gigi" if you don't know what a "gigi" is... google please. Lol
I have nothing to talk about... lol watchin emril!
I love the cooking shows...
But yeah... ima stop writing this "meme" [lmao] relax for today and get started on my weekly "let's talk about sex" blog for tomorrow *wink wink*

Ewwww emril says "awww yeah babe" when he cooks sounds like he's humpin lol


xoxo
Tay

Let's Talk About Sex Baybe ;)

Sex! Omgosh! I love it... I can live without it but ill be grumpy.

If you are under 18 please leave now *I have to say that*

haahaha okay SEX! S-E-X!
Definition: : sexually motivated phenomena or behavior
-www.mariam-webster.com

Whatever the effn defintion is... it causes pleasure and reporduces life we all know that for sure lol Hmmm where do I begin? Do I start with positions? Sex & relationships? Kinds of sex? The consequences of sex? I mean there is soooo much I can do with this subject... its a fun subject for me, I've taken classe and I have learned a lot about sex. Now, just because I know alittle more than your average 25 year old might... don't judge lol I am very very very SAFE and did not learn most of what I know by experience... [pick up a book] lol <--- for real... read... lol okay... so with that said ima start with damn I hella don't know where to start!

Types of sex and sexualities! This is where ima start. People always say "omg their freaks!" When really they aren't freaks they just enjoy sex differently then you might... okay... first please you must be very open minded about sex... I'm going to label the paragraphs with titles if you see a title and are uncomfortable move on to the next... don't leave hateful comments calling people names either. You are more than welcome to voice your opinion but don't be hateful! Okay... let's begin lol

LGBT: Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender
These are people who are attracted to the same sex. We all know who/what an lesbian, gay, bisexual are. But a lot of people confuse a tansgender with a crossdresser or a drag queen... a transgender person is some one who is in transition of changing their sex but is still of the gay or lesbian community.

Swingers
Swingers maybe a couple or a married couple who has sexual intercourse with another couple.

Polygamy
This is someone is in a multi person concenting relationship. Like 3 people live and love together as one couple. This is widely recognized in the morman community. Not to be confused with Bigamy in which someone marries more than one person.

S&M: sadomasochism
This is when couple participate in roleplay and cause pain on their spouse such as spanking, tickling, lite biting. The severity of the pain is up to the people participating. These are consentual activities. The word sadmasochism comes fro the words "Sadism" and "masochism" which describes some forms of mental disabilies and such. But the people who participate in the S&M practices are far from that.

Vanilla sex
This is normal regular sex. No kinkyness, just regular good ol missionary sex...

Okay I think I've covered some of the basics in sexualites and such. This was FUN! So I think ima write once a week about a new sex subject? What do you think?
*shut up hater* lol

But yeah! I think ima do a sex educational every week... note! I am not certified... I didn't go to school for this ish. I read, listen to podcasts and stuff like that. These are from my learnings and experiences. So "do not try this at home" lol "leave it up to the professionals" and things like that!

xoxo
-tay

groupies

A groupie is a person who seeks sexual and/or emotional intimacy with a celebrity or other authority figure. -Wikipedia

Groupies! I don't even know where to start! As some of you know I am a promoter and have worked with some of the best west coast artists and even some national acts. I have seen my share of groupies and even have been called a groupie.

So what is a groupie?
Well above [wikipedia] explains a groupie as one who seeks intamacy from a celebrity or authority figure. From what I've seen a groupie is basically any fan who obsessivly goes to a rappers show, or does anything they can to get that artists attention. Even sleeping with his entorage to get to him. I've heard of females poking holes in condoms and even "turkey basting" themselves to get pregnant by a artists.

Groupies in promotion:
like I said I've been called a groupie. My whole squad has. But I think people call us groupies [which seldomly happens] because they see us as a threat to their business, or iono life? Lol. We are respected and strive on keeping our business relationships just that... business. On the otherhand.. I've seen video, pictures, and have been told by the reciever that there are promoters that exchange sexual favors to advance in the business or get a certain artist to do something for them for free. Those promoters are not being taken seriously and behind closed doors are laughed at. Some promoters use the title "promoter" to cover their groupie tendencies, which sucks for the promoters who are out there grinding and networking their asses off to advance in this business.

Male groupies:
Yes! I do not care what you say there are male groupies! They also will do whatever they can to get in good. But with male groupies the "double standard" comes in and its different, they aren't considered groupies. Which is unfair... I've experience a couple male groupies... hmmm okay MALE GROUPIE #1: you know how like in ever 10 mile radius there is that one guy "Mr.Network" who "networks" with every one but when he introduces him self he has to be like "yeah what's up? Member me? I'm ray rays cousin... yeah u know? Ray ray who's sister has a baby with young capone, you just did a track with him like 3 months ago!" He's not exchanging sexual favors to get something in return... but he is trying to get in good with the artist so he can get something in return. MALE GROUPIE #2: this is the male groupie who trys to hump every close female around a certain rapper thinking he can game up or pipe down at least ONE of the rappers close female friends or even sister so he can get that verse or even hang out with that artist at the club... smh! Told you they exsist... feeling guilty? Its you! Lol

Groupies... but no sexual activity: is this possible? Or are they considered fans? I would say they are fans, but some people might disagree... lately it seems that everyone is a rapper, dj, promoter, producer etc... there's so many of us its hard to point out or recognize a fan when you see one. I know whenever I get around Balance I freeze up... I'm not a groupie, never have got at him in a groupie way. But I am a fan! I respect his music and hardwork... but to a closed minded person, someone who doesn't know who I am would see me as a groupie, but i am a FAN.

Groupies VS Wifes/Girlfriends:
Ughhh omg! I feel for the wifes or girlfriends of these artists soooo much! I ain't gonna lie... some of my girls have had FULL RELATIONSHIPS with artists. My BD is a rapper but I'm one of the females that was with him before that's what he wanted to fully presue. No one wants someone coming and recking a home. I'm not going to say a happy relationship because something maybe wrong for him to cheat... but its unfair for the wife/girlsfriend who has stuck by her mans side. Threw thick and thin... to hell and back and then have to deal with groupies? Most of these wifes/girlfriends where there before these men became "famous". And then it could be all ruined over. Groupie? That's not fair to the wives or the families that they have made with/for these men.

Artist & Groupies: I know some artists who don't even look twice when a groupie is in their face. there should be some kinda effn award for that lol. and to those that don't, the "I get loney" excuse? eff that.... there is masturbation, phone sex, shit if you get money like that fly your wife or girl out. Can't do that? Have willpower and love for yourself or her not to fall into the "spell" of the groupie hoe. Lol... Or how about don't even be in a relationship and them "f*ck every girl in the 'groupie' world"! You won't be just saving any relationship you might be in, but you could be saving someones life.


"Ima F*ck your whole group, baby ima groupie" -Lil Wayne

Groupies outside of Music:
we see this everyday so it is possible... I even have a friend who has been the groupie of a couple group of males. She's not proud of herself now... but she will admit it. [So I'm not talkin ish closed minded haters] but we ALL know that certain female who has slept with EVERY guy in your crew... EVERYONE of them... you don't? Its you then lol

Why do Groupies do this? Self esteem? They want to be loved? We can say it stems from that. I mean self esteem is mainly the root of all evil... when women do not have esteem for themselves they do drastic thing to feel better about themselfs. The male groupies its the same thing, self esteem. They want to be the cool guy hanging out with the cooler guy. They want to be excepted and well liked... we can't say its for the money because that would be a goldigger and that's a whole different blog. Lol

My definition of a groupie from what I have expirenced is:
a homewreacking suckubuss scallywhoop, who will go to any extreme for a sexual encounter with a celebrity or authority figure"

But for some people:
"Groupies make the world go 'round"
SMH!

Well I hope I covered all GROUPIE bases in this blog... I think I have... lol

Note to groupies:
just because he says he's a artists doesn't really mean he is... its 2009... everyone raps... shit I've even ghostwritten... you wanna hump me now?? Lol I'm good!

Thanx to Michelle Espo for this topic suggestion. I've seen on her twitter lately ranting about Groupie Hoes... they are really annoying aand stressfull but keep doing you girl and eff them hoes... follow her on twitter @prettiesexi Mahal Kita Meshi!

Whooo long ass blog! Tell all ur friends about my blog. As you can tell I do shoutouts and give credit where its due... so thanx again to my readers... I WUBE y'all!

xoxo
-tay

double standard

Listening to "What these bitches want" by DMX and Sisqo. I love this song. DMX used to dominate the game... for hella long too! I hope it he gets better and makes a dope come back....

But what I've always wonder why is it okay for men to glorify what they do to women and how many females they penitrate, but why isn't it okay for us?

We should be able to date more than one man and not be called a hoe, slut, skank or what ever you call it. I know a lot of women who talk to more than one person and don't sleep with anyone of em. Maybe one but not all, but in 92% of the same situation [when a man is dating multiple women] he is sleeping with most if not all the women. And yet he's a pimp or the "man"!

Eff that double standard.
Someone please explain why this is still a issue?!