Ladies, ladies, ladies!

Ladies, ladies, ladies!

What are we doing to ourselves? I see stupidity and insecurities everyday. I ain't here to judge. I'm guilty of being insecure and stupid at times. But you live and you learn right?

Can we please stop letting these men run all over us? Its funny when we say "where all the good men at?" Yo! How are you gonna get a good man when you ain't even good yourself? You don't love your self, and have no self esteem... so you go fuck anyone and everyone who says hi to you.

My male friends point out stuff in my friends all the time and tell me not to be like them. "That one gives off the vibe of a hoe, you can tell by the way she dresses" ladies... baby phat and apple bottom is not to be worn if over 18! Real talk. Apple bottom does cater to us ladies with more junk in the trunk but to do have to rock the cheapest looking pair? Its called hoodrat wear! Step your clothes game up. You don't have to be a label whore. There are places' like forever 21, love couture, or H&M...

"That one is thirsty for male attention, she keeps smiling in everyones face" smiling in every niggas face that says hi to you is lame! Let them chase you! Okay smiling is good but ladies you know when you do that lil dip, n stick out some certain body parts and giggle to everything they say... stop! Come on you know you doing to much. Just be you and be confident! There's some one for everyone.

"She keep going threw his stuff, if you dig deep, you might find something you don't like" I've looked n looked and found stuff I didn't want to see. Most womens excuses are [even mine was] "well if he didn't give me a reason I wouldn't have to" true... BUT what if there wasn't anythig ever there. You just tore a rift in your solid relationships over an insecurity you had... possibly from a past relationship? Its hard not to bring the past into the future... but if you can't move forward from the past... you shouldn't be in this new relationship. He souldnt have to pay for his mistakes.

"If he cheats once, he'll do it again" we all know this is true! But why get mad at the female he cheated on you with? 4 times outta 5 she didn't know shit about you. My ex husband told a female I was his roomate! Now here were my insecuirties and stupidity came into play... the first time he cheated on me I continued to be with him, while stupidly thinking he would change which that thinking gave me a false sence of secuirty.

We can take back our dignaty and self esteem.. don't let anyone bring you down! Be solid, hold yourself down and your kids if you have any. Hopefully you are in that relationship soo great that nothing I wrote matters.

"Pussy is not the most powerful thing, the way we love is the most powerful thing"

oscar grant R.I.P

Picture taken @ the first protest I went to. That's me in the pink and green. Jan 14, 2009


I am excited about being apart of this upcomin protest. I am very pasionatte about this incident. I did not know Oscar Grant but this touched me. My friend was on the train when this happened and I remember her trying to tell me what happened the next day.

Its crazy how a policeman someone we trust to protect us, shot a young man at point blank range. His excuse is "I reached for my tazer" bullshit! You are a trained officer, you went for one side then went for the other... stood up... pointed... and within 2-3 second... shot... you shot a unarmed 22 year old father. No matter how defiant he was you took his life! And because of you, he will never get to see his daughter grow.

Stuff like this happens all the time. Like sean bell who was shot 50 times on his wedding day. Some policemen abuse their power. And the justice system will cover the policemens asses! How in the hell did OPD bail Oscar Grants killer out? I will not call him by his name. He is not a human to me. I hope the justice system does find justice for Oscar Grant. I hope they do not let this person go free. He's been free for months now. He needs to be locked up. If it was any normal citizen this case would be over and the person would be serving life or they would be on death row.

UPCOMING PROTEST:
KEEP THE TRIAL IN OAKLAND JUSTICE FOR OSCAR GRANT
RALLY at Court Hearing to Keep Mehserle's Trial in Oakland
FRIDAY, OCTOBER 2*, 8:00am
Rene C. Davidson Courthouse
12th St. + Oak (near Oakland City Center/12th St. BART Station
(Change-of-venue hearing starts at 9:00 AM*)
Details may change.
Updated info at BAMN.com/OscarGrant

video blog... haaa

Haha I look turfed but oh well...

ugh

I hate house parties and kick back. Mostly I hate em cuz there's always that one person who be hella outta pocket. Well last night I had a little kick back. Me my girl her boo thang n his two friends. He boo thang was the loudest most annoying nigga ever!
I got into it wit her 3 times which was unessacary cuz she shoulda checked her dude from the gate and when I brought it up. But she one them females that the nigga comes first. Which I don't agree with but that's her.
But yeah she blocked from my phone for a min. Ill be that square bitch, but I got my ish together n answer to no nigga!

Ugh very very annoyed. Will blog later
"Bitches stand for nothing but fall for anything"

Xoxo
-tay

** hopefully I have some kinda graphic up for this blog later

older men

I'm 25 and they say men don't mature till around the age 30...
Prove it. I haven't seen or met a man 26+ that has matured.
I know younger men more mature.

Riddle that

two blogs... one girl... why dont i post more?

I don't know why I don't. I have been looking and paying attention to other bloggers. They don't post much sometimes but they post.
I want to have successful blogs. My other blog has waay more of. Following than this one.... I guess because I know what I am doing with that one. This one is more personal I guess..
Ugh well my point is... ima try to blog everyday. I'm not trying to blog to be famous but I do want a small following so I know my time isn't wasted.

Oki doki
That's all for now...

Xoxo
Tay

#9 reasons why people love to hate Jay-Z

As time got closer to the release of the Blueprint 3 I seen more people hate on Jay-Z than I have EVER have seen. Today [9/7/09] the BP3 was released. I waited to get my copy but hella people I know already bootleged it. Some didn't like it but the majority loved it.
I was driving to the store and thought of a idea... that I should write a blog on why I think Jay-Z is hated on so much.

#9- Anyone who can diss someone and the person he dissed [rush limbaugh] be happy they got dissed by the person [Jay-Z] has a power and influence on life itself.

Rush Limbaugh's responce to Jay-Z mention of him in "Off That"
“I have been mentioned in a rap song by the rapper Jay-Z,” Limbaugh said. “The new song mentions me and the moderate Bill O’Reilly.” Limbaugh then actually played a clip of “Off That” before chiming back in. “As far as I know, I have never been mentioned in a rap song by anybody. It means I’ve made it — I’m now on a rap tune by the famous rapper Jay-Z.”

#8- Since 1996 Jay-z has had the rap game on lock.
With his first release of "Can't Knock the Hustle" Jay-Z came in the door swingin. The title track to this day helps motivate people in their life and in this industry... he seriously is the Obama of the Game

#7- Roc-A-Fella is one of the most influentual record labels around. The roster is dope. They never seem to fail!

#6- Jay-Z has discovered and mentored some of the hottest artists today Kanye and Rihanna!
Face it no matter how much you hate Kanye he's a dope lyricists and no matter how much I don't like Rihanna I can admit that she got it and is here to stay

#5- Jay-z IS pushin 40...
so what? He retired and came back.... so what? Jay-z is an artists that could do this forever! He has never changed up his rappin style to please anyone and I think that's why his fans do respect him. He don't have to do a dance song or have a cheesy catchy hook for you to buy his music and support him.

#4- Jay-Z IS the best rapper alive... how?
Check the albums all albums have came in #1. He's the most talked about, hated, appreciated, loved, and unliked. Other artists hate the fact that he is pushin 40 and did more in his whole career that most will do ever! Even when he was on a rope comin down fom a celling in the "Hawiian Sophie" video.

#3- His beefs are pointless!
Jim Jones really doesn't have anything to back his case... Jaz-O is a hater to me, he should be supportive of his apprentice, and now this T-Pain beef? Hopefully this blows over quick cuz I remember T-Pain performed D.O.A with him! And we would love to hear T-Pain FINALLY sing without the Autotune... I would. If you start beef with Jay-Z I think you should come as harrd as Naz if not harder if you don't have that abillity... why even go there?

#2- Jay-Z is the best business man.
He invests his money well... part owner of the Nets... clubs, Roc-A wear... etc... with 35 million being made since june 2008 to june 2009 he knows what he is doing.

#1- "The Hottest Chick in the Game"
And for you dudes like "whhhhyyyy" yes Jay-Z is not the most attractive person and YES he pulled beyonce... but you can't knoc his hustle... and he has something you dont.... beyonce! Lol

So after listening to the BP3 I think its another classic. Its classic Jay, and I'm thinking the people that don't like it are so effn brainwashed with the cheesy, crappy, and un-intellegent music that's out now... that don't realize good music when they hear it. I am glad I waited! [twitter.com/brokencool] I bring you up because you had me soooooo effn hyped up to listen to the BP3! Lol