Everyone loves to be comfortable around the person they love right?
Well how comfortable it to comfortable?
For me I think its cute when they burp in front of me.
Weird right? Iono I think if u can do that your comfortable around a person.
But farting??? Fuck na! Go outside or to the bathroom for that shit. Lol
Anyways.
Yeah I haven't blogged much.
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Showing posts with label Love. Show all posts
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Wednesday, February 24, 2010
Saturday, January 9, 2010
the last 18 hours
The last 18 hours has been HELL!
Why do the people you care for the most always seem to let you down and hurt you the worst?
Maybe its because the people we care for the most are always our closest confadonts [sp], lovers, friends, spouses, family etc. And maybe we get out hopes up so high for the possibility that since they care for us also they won't hurt us or do us wrong?
The only people that have never done me dirty is my mom and my son. Also a very select few friends. But I wouldn't put anything past anyone right now.
I've been let down and hurt by one person that has been the closest to me the past 9 months. I don't think I could every trust or confide or love or care or anything for someone again. The people that are in my life now I love and would do anything for BUT I am even at the point to where I don't even know if I wanna put any effort into anyone besides me son of course.
I always say "do you" I need to take my own advice because it doesn't seem like anything else is working for me relationship wise.
18 hours ago, I was happy, in love, enjoying life. Now I'm trying to get back to that state of mind while moving past the last 18 hours
Why do the people you care for the most always seem to let you down and hurt you the worst?
Maybe its because the people we care for the most are always our closest confadonts [sp], lovers, friends, spouses, family etc. And maybe we get out hopes up so high for the possibility that since they care for us also they won't hurt us or do us wrong?
The only people that have never done me dirty is my mom and my son. Also a very select few friends. But I wouldn't put anything past anyone right now.
I've been let down and hurt by one person that has been the closest to me the past 9 months. I don't think I could every trust or confide or love or care or anything for someone again. The people that are in my life now I love and would do anything for BUT I am even at the point to where I don't even know if I wanna put any effort into anyone besides me son of course.
I always say "do you" I need to take my own advice because it doesn't seem like anything else is working for me relationship wise.
18 hours ago, I was happy, in love, enjoying life. Now I'm trying to get back to that state of mind while moving past the last 18 hours
Saturday, November 14, 2009
7
"Everytime I try to leave something keeps pulling me back"
-chingy ft tyreese
"I sware this time is the last time! I'm done"
-anyone in a relationship
They say in a unhealthy relationship the couple will go back to each other an average of 7 times before untimatly breaking up.
Why do we keep going back? People say "cuz I still love em." I've learned that to be untrue. I was with my ex for 5 years. He took me to hell and back. But I kept going back. After our first big break up of two years I always cheated on him. And he continued to do so to me. I kept taking him back because I would think "where would he go?" Or "what about my son?" One guy I was talkin to for 3 years while I was with my ex and he would say "how come you don't leave?" And my answer would be "because I love him".... I loved him but wasn't in love. At times I would fall back in love with him... (ie: me marring him) but within a month I was regreting being back with him and cheated on him. Till I finally left him.
People confuse love with security and often are mistaking love for that false sense of security. I know I did. I know a lot of people continue to go back to unhealty relationships because they do not want to be alone, they don't like sleeping alone etc. But I've learn to find out.... you're never alone. Loneliness is a eff'd up feeling but its a feeling that you can deal with untill you find that person who treats you right.
So when your in a relationship and you keep going back... think it threw and make sure its what you want to do. Sometimes it does work for couples! But now and days people take relationships to a whole new light. So if you want to continue in that cycle of hurt, pain, breaking up, going back go head. But circles are just continuous lines... lines do end somewhere.
-chingy ft tyreese
"I sware this time is the last time! I'm done"
-anyone in a relationship
They say in a unhealthy relationship the couple will go back to each other an average of 7 times before untimatly breaking up.
Why do we keep going back? People say "cuz I still love em." I've learned that to be untrue. I was with my ex for 5 years. He took me to hell and back. But I kept going back. After our first big break up of two years I always cheated on him. And he continued to do so to me. I kept taking him back because I would think "where would he go?" Or "what about my son?" One guy I was talkin to for 3 years while I was with my ex and he would say "how come you don't leave?" And my answer would be "because I love him".... I loved him but wasn't in love. At times I would fall back in love with him... (ie: me marring him) but within a month I was regreting being back with him and cheated on him. Till I finally left him.
People confuse love with security and often are mistaking love for that false sense of security. I know I did. I know a lot of people continue to go back to unhealty relationships because they do not want to be alone, they don't like sleeping alone etc. But I've learn to find out.... you're never alone. Loneliness is a eff'd up feeling but its a feeling that you can deal with untill you find that person who treats you right.
So when your in a relationship and you keep going back... think it threw and make sure its what you want to do. Sometimes it does work for couples! But now and days people take relationships to a whole new light. So if you want to continue in that cycle of hurt, pain, breaking up, going back go head. But circles are just continuous lines... lines do end somewhere.
Friday, November 13, 2009
positions
"How do you want it?"
I think Tupac said it best. Even though in the song he's talkin about something kinda different, just the thought of him whispering that in my ear turns me on! Ladies?! Am I right? Lmao
This sex post is about POSITIONS! The things that make sex that much better! I know someone who never tried anything but missonary! And I know someone who didn't know what missonary was! Wtf... its the boring position... to me it is. Lol soooo ima list some positions, discribe them, how to do them and if I can find some pix ima post them.
[NON-PRONOGRAPHIC EITHER.... PERV lol]
So let's get started!
*if you are under 18 leave now*
Missonary:
This is the normal position. Girl on her back and the guy is on top.
The twist:
The girl turns to her side and wraps her leg around the guy. Then the guy enters on top or from the side.
Girl on top:
This is the guy on his back and the girl is on top. This is a position that gets the girl to orgasim quicker because it hits the G-Spot.
Cowgirl:
This is another position when the girl is on top but she is on her feet instead of her knees. Like she's "droppin it low" in the club.
Backwards cowgirl:
Basically just like above but the girl is now facing the males feet.
Legs over the shoulders:
This is a deep penitration position. Bring the girls legs up while she is on her back and put them over your sholders and enter!
Butterfly:
This position, the girl on her back, crosser leggs like indian style and enter. Another deep penitration position.
The bulldog:
This is the NORMAL doggie style. The girl is on her hands and knees and the guy enters.
Doggie style 1:
The girl is on her knees but her stomach is on the bed/floor where ever lol and her ass is in the air.
Doggie style 2: advanced
The girl is in a push up position. You are standing up behind her and she wraps her leggs around you and you hold them.
Kneeling 69: advanced
The guy is kneeling and the girl is upside down. Please try if you are strong. You are basically doing this on the floor.
I have tons-o-more positions in my kinky little mind. But ion wanna give away my moves. Lol but ladies rock your hips in bed PLZ! Don't just lay there and moan... not cute. And guys when we say "DON'T MOVE! YOUR RIGHT THERE" DON'T EFFN MOVE! GOSH! Otherwise... have fun... play... try new things and foreplay is great... ummm next post? Yes I think so...plus who wants to dip there fondue stick into dry chocolate? I wouldn't. Lol
xxoxoo
-tay
I think Tupac said it best. Even though in the song he's talkin about something kinda different, just the thought of him whispering that in my ear turns me on! Ladies?! Am I right? Lmao
This sex post is about POSITIONS! The things that make sex that much better! I know someone who never tried anything but missonary! And I know someone who didn't know what missonary was! Wtf... its the boring position... to me it is. Lol soooo ima list some positions, discribe them, how to do them and if I can find some pix ima post them.
[NON-PRONOGRAPHIC EITHER.... PERV lol]
So let's get started!
*if you are under 18 leave now*
Missonary:
This is the normal position. Girl on her back and the guy is on top.
The twist:
The girl turns to her side and wraps her leg around the guy. Then the guy enters on top or from the side.
Girl on top:
This is the guy on his back and the girl is on top. This is a position that gets the girl to orgasim quicker because it hits the G-Spot.
Cowgirl:
This is another position when the girl is on top but she is on her feet instead of her knees. Like she's "droppin it low" in the club.
Backwards cowgirl:
Basically just like above but the girl is now facing the males feet.
Legs over the shoulders:
This is a deep penitration position. Bring the girls legs up while she is on her back and put them over your sholders and enter!
Butterfly:
This position, the girl on her back, crosser leggs like indian style and enter. Another deep penitration position.
The bulldog:
This is the NORMAL doggie style. The girl is on her hands and knees and the guy enters.
Doggie style 1:
The girl is on her knees but her stomach is on the bed/floor where ever lol and her ass is in the air.
Doggie style 2: advanced
The girl is in a push up position. You are standing up behind her and she wraps her leggs around you and you hold them.
Kneeling 69: advanced
The guy is kneeling and the girl is upside down. Please try if you are strong. You are basically doing this on the floor.
I have tons-o-more positions in my kinky little mind. But ion wanna give away my moves. Lol but ladies rock your hips in bed PLZ! Don't just lay there and moan... not cute. And guys when we say "DON'T MOVE! YOUR RIGHT THERE" DON'T EFFN MOVE! GOSH! Otherwise... have fun... play... try new things and foreplay is great... ummm next post? Yes I think so...plus who wants to dip there fondue stick into dry chocolate? I wouldn't. Lol
xxoxoo
-tay
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
do you
I know I was supposed to do a sex post today but I have been going threw relationship problems myself.
Relationships are hard to manage. Wheather they are friendly or romantic. I know when I care for someone I care for them more than I should. I had a friend that took advantage of me for 10 years! Had to cut her off... its hard letting someone you care for go... even if you know its an unhealthy relationship.
People take others for granted all the time.
In the end we just need to wory about ourselves and the kids we have [if any] because in the end that's all we have.
xoxo
-tay
Relationships are hard to manage. Wheather they are friendly or romantic. I know when I care for someone I care for them more than I should. I had a friend that took advantage of me for 10 years! Had to cut her off... its hard letting someone you care for go... even if you know its an unhealthy relationship.
People take others for granted all the time.
In the end we just need to wory about ourselves and the kids we have [if any] because in the end that's all we have.
xoxo
-tay
Saturday, November 7, 2009
play your position
You keep playing your position, but aren't winning the game
What do you do when this happens? Do you forefit? Keep playing the game but scout out other teams?
There is so much when can do in a situation like this. This is mainly for the single person who is talking to a main person. Waiting for them to make a commitment.
I've had friends who waited for someone for years and it worked out fine. I've had some wait and it not be what they expected.
Basically we gotta think it out and do what our mind tells us to. Sometimes we gotta listen to our head in stead of our hearts. Our hearts get broken to much and could be "speaking" because it needs that quick repair...
Think about it... jordan LOVED basketball... he played it with his heart and mind... but he used his mind and strategies more and became a 6 time champ and the best player ever to his the basketball courts... don't be like master p and taken out the game before the season even starts...
Believe in yourself to make the right decision. Whether it works in the end or does... you'll figure out what to do next game!
xoxo
-tay
What do you do when this happens? Do you forefit? Keep playing the game but scout out other teams?
There is so much when can do in a situation like this. This is mainly for the single person who is talking to a main person. Waiting for them to make a commitment.
I've had friends who waited for someone for years and it worked out fine. I've had some wait and it not be what they expected.
Basically we gotta think it out and do what our mind tells us to. Sometimes we gotta listen to our head in stead of our hearts. Our hearts get broken to much and could be "speaking" because it needs that quick repair...
Think about it... jordan LOVED basketball... he played it with his heart and mind... but he used his mind and strategies more and became a 6 time champ and the best player ever to his the basketball courts... don't be like master p and taken out the game before the season even starts...
Believe in yourself to make the right decision. Whether it works in the end or does... you'll figure out what to do next game!
xoxo
-tay
Wednesday, November 4, 2009
support and compromise
I LOVE when you guys hit me with blog ideas and suggestions... really... you can DM them to me or email me at mzsupasav@gmail.com
This is a DM I received on twitter:
blog idea: being understanding and supportive of da others needs in relationships, ie. compromise.
Compromising and being supportive are BIG key in making a relationship work!
There is a difference in being supportive from sitting there and not saying anything but playing the roll of being supportive.
Us as women most of the time sit there and support our men but when we want to do something we offten get put on the back burner or end up having to give up what we want to do to SUPPORT our men... fellas we can't have this! If your lady wants to do something that you don't agree with but you see that she really wants to do it... COMPROMISE... meet half way... come to a equal medium... ladies we got to do this too. I see this happen a lot in the music industry... a girlfriend or wife does not want their spouse to do a certain show for groupie reasons. Don't bitch about it... met half way... don't go to this show but go to the next one or visa versa... or go for the first half of the show... it shows support and compromise... complaining about anything in a relationship leads to arguements. I'm not saying be submissive to your spouse but compromise... its easier.
Every relationship is 50/50! Nothing more nothing less. We need to support each other to be happy. No one wants to see their spouse fail... right? Being supportive is not being submissive. Sometimes being supportive is taken for granted but if you guys have agreements and have spoke to each other about what your long term goals in life are... it souldnt be that hard to support one another. Especially the person you love!
I hope this helps :)
xoxo
-tay
This is a DM I received on twitter:
blog idea: being understanding and supportive of da others needs in relationships, ie. compromise.
Compromising and being supportive are BIG key in making a relationship work!
There is a difference in being supportive from sitting there and not saying anything but playing the roll of being supportive.
Us as women most of the time sit there and support our men but when we want to do something we offten get put on the back burner or end up having to give up what we want to do to SUPPORT our men... fellas we can't have this! If your lady wants to do something that you don't agree with but you see that she really wants to do it... COMPROMISE... meet half way... come to a equal medium... ladies we got to do this too. I see this happen a lot in the music industry... a girlfriend or wife does not want their spouse to do a certain show for groupie reasons. Don't bitch about it... met half way... don't go to this show but go to the next one or visa versa... or go for the first half of the show... it shows support and compromise... complaining about anything in a relationship leads to arguements. I'm not saying be submissive to your spouse but compromise... its easier.
Every relationship is 50/50! Nothing more nothing less. We need to support each other to be happy. No one wants to see their spouse fail... right? Being supportive is not being submissive. Sometimes being supportive is taken for granted but if you guys have agreements and have spoke to each other about what your long term goals in life are... it souldnt be that hard to support one another. Especially the person you love!
I hope this helps :)
xoxo
-tay
Tuesday, November 3, 2009
Thursday, October 29, 2009
computer love
Everyday on myspace I probably get 20+ emails saying "what's up sexy, you got a man?"
I DONT do internet dating. Don't get me wrong sometimes I flirt... but I wouldn't intentionaly be online trying to find love.
I know people do it. And I've heard of people falling in love. Maybe its easier because online you can make yourself somebody you want to be but aren't.
Remeber when the party lines were the ish? I was to young to be on them but me and my friends used to be on their and play and talk ish. I never met anyone off of a party line but I have friends who did and still do!
There are dangers of meeting someone online. I mean there are dangers of meeting someone in the club or at the grocery store, but don't you think the dangers would be worse?
Anyways... I don't know why I brought this topic up. Its not appealing to me.
Eff eff eff eff!
This might be a double post day ;)
Lol
xoxo
-tay
I DONT do internet dating. Don't get me wrong sometimes I flirt... but I wouldn't intentionaly be online trying to find love.
I know people do it. And I've heard of people falling in love. Maybe its easier because online you can make yourself somebody you want to be but aren't.
Remeber when the party lines were the ish? I was to young to be on them but me and my friends used to be on their and play and talk ish. I never met anyone off of a party line but I have friends who did and still do!
There are dangers of meeting someone online. I mean there are dangers of meeting someone in the club or at the grocery store, but don't you think the dangers would be worse?
Anyways... I don't know why I brought this topic up. Its not appealing to me.
Eff eff eff eff!
This might be a double post day ;)
Lol
xoxo
-tay
Monday, October 26, 2009
when is the right time?
Hey Tay, please consider this: IS THERE A TIME LIMIT ON A REALTIONSHIP? AT SOME POINT IS IT JUST...OVER? DO PEOPLE GROW APART? SMGDMFH
I had received this is a DM for my blog. Now I'm no relationship expert... sometimes I need help with mine. Sometimes we really already know the answers to our questions... right? Like when you ask a friend for advice they are telling you what you already kno?
I have dated men, played them, loved them, hated them, cried over them everything someone with feelings has done. but the relationships that I did have were mostly long term my first boyfriend from when I was 13-18, my baby daddy 17-19, my husband 19-24... I have a problem holding on to relationships when there are over!
For instence I started talking to this guy 3 years ago. Seriously for the past 6 months. Yes we were talking while I was with my ex husband but I never cheated on my husband with this person. Anyways when I left my ex husband [marcus] we decided to start a relationship. Everything was perfect untill he went back to his girlfriend and I found out... now me and him fight almost every week, we aren't seeing each other anymore... but somehow I feel I am sticking around hoping he breaks it off with his girl. He doesn't want to be with her... everyone knows it and sees it... but he is stuck... everyone gets attatched to someone... they get comfortable... they start to loose sight of who they are because of a certain person... I've done it for 5 years and I feel my self doing it with this person [*bob] he is a great person but I'm starting to get comfortable thinking one day he'll really leave his girl... which I'm realizing he's not and I'm movng forward. This relationship between me and him is over! I know it is and now I have to do me and move on...
I think a relationship is over when you feel its over, when you've exaugsted every thing in your power to make it work and it simply just will not work! Also if you feel like its over.... and you don't want to be with that person anymore I think you should tell them, if they still care for you and want to be with you... and you ain't there anymore... leave em... it sounds harsh but honestly why lead that person on? Why tell them things and have them believe you want to be with them when you don't? So they can hate you later? Regret you? Dispise you? Feelings are meant to be hurt... and then there are feelings that never get broke like... healing... they will heal from it and once they realize that you broke up with them not to make it worse and that you did it because you care? that's the bet feeling ever...
its 2009/2010... its not the 50's anymore... people rarely find their "true loves" anymore... people think more with their no-no spots then with their hearts... with that said... nothing lasts forever. It seems like it in this day and age... at any point a relaionship could be over... hopefully in this crazy world you did find someone that is your soulmate and you can work it out... but after one big fight don't just say its over... fight! fight for the person you love, not fight them I think that's what a lot of us do... I know I'm guilty... I've fought the person argued, nagged, complained, bitched whatever... but not fought for him... there have been times where I've done nothing but fight for him and ended up feeling defeated emotionaly even though I got him back. We need to do everything we can and fight for our love.... but there's only so many beat downs someone can take... after a while if your the only one fighting... you won! You may not have one the person your fighting for but you've won yourself... move on and love yourself.
Yeah sooo not the 50's... I always say "I wish we loved like we did in the 50's and fought like we did in the 80's [dance battles]" lol its hard to find that person... we always look for "mr.right" but find "mr.rightnow" people grow apart all the time... sometimes we just grow up!
This is a long blog... ill prolly read it over and over and add stuff... but this is all honest and my feelings... I hope my advice and experience helps you in your time of heartache. Sometimes we don't have anyone to listen to us... but if you send me a question even if you wanna do it discreetly [like above] I won't say names and I prolly will post it the same day...
If you have comments or advice yourself leave it in the comments please... I'm growing with y'all and love to hear/read your advice and comments too
xoxo
-tay
*name has been change to protect...the...innocent.... lmao you know what I mean
I had received this is a DM for my blog. Now I'm no relationship expert... sometimes I need help with mine. Sometimes we really already know the answers to our questions... right? Like when you ask a friend for advice they are telling you what you already kno?
I have dated men, played them, loved them, hated them, cried over them everything someone with feelings has done. but the relationships that I did have were mostly long term my first boyfriend from when I was 13-18, my baby daddy 17-19, my husband 19-24... I have a problem holding on to relationships when there are over!
For instence I started talking to this guy 3 years ago. Seriously for the past 6 months. Yes we were talking while I was with my ex husband but I never cheated on my husband with this person. Anyways when I left my ex husband [marcus] we decided to start a relationship. Everything was perfect untill he went back to his girlfriend and I found out... now me and him fight almost every week, we aren't seeing each other anymore... but somehow I feel I am sticking around hoping he breaks it off with his girl. He doesn't want to be with her... everyone knows it and sees it... but he is stuck... everyone gets attatched to someone... they get comfortable... they start to loose sight of who they are because of a certain person... I've done it for 5 years and I feel my self doing it with this person [*bob] he is a great person but I'm starting to get comfortable thinking one day he'll really leave his girl... which I'm realizing he's not and I'm movng forward. This relationship between me and him is over! I know it is and now I have to do me and move on...
I think a relationship is over when you feel its over, when you've exaugsted every thing in your power to make it work and it simply just will not work! Also if you feel like its over.... and you don't want to be with that person anymore I think you should tell them, if they still care for you and want to be with you... and you ain't there anymore... leave em... it sounds harsh but honestly why lead that person on? Why tell them things and have them believe you want to be with them when you don't? So they can hate you later? Regret you? Dispise you? Feelings are meant to be hurt... and then there are feelings that never get broke like... healing... they will heal from it and once they realize that you broke up with them not to make it worse and that you did it because you care? that's the bet feeling ever...
its 2009/2010... its not the 50's anymore... people rarely find their "true loves" anymore... people think more with their no-no spots then with their hearts... with that said... nothing lasts forever. It seems like it in this day and age... at any point a relaionship could be over... hopefully in this crazy world you did find someone that is your soulmate and you can work it out... but after one big fight don't just say its over... fight! fight for the person you love, not fight them I think that's what a lot of us do... I know I'm guilty... I've fought the person argued, nagged, complained, bitched whatever... but not fought for him... there have been times where I've done nothing but fight for him and ended up feeling defeated emotionaly even though I got him back. We need to do everything we can and fight for our love.... but there's only so many beat downs someone can take... after a while if your the only one fighting... you won! You may not have one the person your fighting for but you've won yourself... move on and love yourself.
Yeah sooo not the 50's... I always say "I wish we loved like we did in the 50's and fought like we did in the 80's [dance battles]" lol its hard to find that person... we always look for "mr.right" but find "mr.rightnow" people grow apart all the time... sometimes we just grow up!
This is a long blog... ill prolly read it over and over and add stuff... but this is all honest and my feelings... I hope my advice and experience helps you in your time of heartache. Sometimes we don't have anyone to listen to us... but if you send me a question even if you wanna do it discreetly [like above] I won't say names and I prolly will post it the same day...
If you have comments or advice yourself leave it in the comments please... I'm growing with y'all and love to hear/read your advice and comments too
xoxo
-tay
*name has been change to protect...the...innocent.... lmao you know what I mean
ewwww you got cooties!
When I have "girl talk" with my friends we sit an talk about the most sexual, sweaty, awesome sex! And we talk about the guys with the bigg penis', who can "go down" well... and we even wonder how do we know if he's the one... what's sexy to men? And some wonder why they are considered "freaks" and can't keep a man... I have so many opinons like:
-Size matters cuz I can make my own motion
-I look for swag in a man, presence, how he carrys himself and if he's able to take care of himself!
-I think guys ask girls nif they are freaks because girls put themselves out to be treated like she's a freak and ready to hump
They are many opinions... so I decided to ask some of y'all [twitter] so I can get different opinions! And here's what I got :)
Size or motion in the ocean?
@TMD462:
Thats a hard one but i would say if he he aint well endowed but has al the right motion and know how to use his tounge then i cant complain for long. However i would prefer at least 7inches, at least! But seein as aint had none in 3months and countin i think right now i will be happy wit anything, LoL!! But mos def size do matter!!
What is "sexy" to you?
@megaxave:
whats sexy to me is all together is a personal and physical thing physically it would be what any other guy thinks is sexy on a girl. from her hair, eyes, teeth, face, breasts, stomach, waist, butt, legs, and feet and then its the way a female will will ROCK IT or have the swagger to dress and be sexy with that all together.
Personally like as far as personality goes is her holding her own as a woman and being herself and confident that she is sexy and doesnt let anyone else make her feel otherwise. but then again doesnt toot her own horn about how fly she is and other females hatin on her and other garbage like that. basically a female that is secure in who she is and isnt afraid of what everyone is gonna think on the days she looks a hot mess.
i also think its sexy when a woman is smart, because she'll make smart decisions and have the wisdom not to take that route, what ever it may be. with that all together basically makes what i think is sexy.
- xavier @megaxave / twitter.com
When a male says to a female "ohhh your a freak huh?" What does he mean?
@biggcain24:
Well when I say that, its becuz its kinda like throwin it out there 2 see what she will say next kinda like see how much more info she willing to give up about herself, its used to trigger a response atleast that's how I use it
--biggcain24
what do you look for in a guy?
@xokishaxo:
What do I look for in a guy:
Someone that is passionate and dedicated as I am about what they want or do in life. Most importantly to care for my kids as if they were their own. My kids and I are a packaged deal. You could never have me and not my kids. Someone that is rough on the outside but sweet, gentle, and affectionate on the inside, and can make me laugh. Someone that will have my back as I would theirs. Trust and honesty..
How did you know he was the one?
@imaqueen:
Well...my Husby & I didn't get married until we were in a relationship for 14 years. Now 9 years later, we are still at it. I KNEW for a fact he was the one for me because even with alllllllllllllllllll his flaws...I still loved this man with every single fiber of my being. Its never been easy or perfect, but its mines. We have vested interests, such as kids(5), businesses(4), and oneanother. Also the dick was and IS supa dupa. And for me, that's a must. I'm hoping this answers your questin, Tay, but if not I would LOVE to elaborate! ;)
What's the biggest thing a woman does wrong for her not to be able to keep a man?
@dj_twomp_mp3ent:
Trust.. This only applys to ladies that have a good man.. Not all men are out there tryin to hit everything movin. If you got a good dude and you continue to not trust him eventually he'd feel like it's pointless in tryin to make you see he's trust worthy.
what makes your/a relationship successful?
@prettiesexi
Before I get started on this topic I have to say that I am not a relationship expert, this is just basically what works for Jaytee && I. Also, how I believe a relationship should work in order to survive. These are my own persona opinions, which I have developed over my past failed relationships. That and the many, many bad relationships friends and friends of friends have been in ol. With that said…
[TRUST] I feel that no matter what you’ve been through in past relationships should NEVER carry over to a new one. No matter what give that ‘next’ person a clean slate. Everyone deserves the benefit of the doubt, so unless they give you reason to be crazy-insecure girlfriend, DON’T. Be trusting. (i.e., I know people that hide their access codes from their gf/bf. I feel that the only reason people do shit like that is when they got shit to hide).
[RESPECT] This is MAJOR. You can’t truly be happy with someone who doesn’t respect you. And not just you, people in your life that mean anything to you. I was always taught to treat others the way that you want to be treated. Talking shit, being condescending, yelling @ each other… etc… nobody wants to be with someone like that. [Communication] This is VITAL. I’ve learned so much from JayTee [my boyfriend], he’s the most kind & caring person I know. He taught me how to be humble and talk everything out. I was never the one to talk out a situation be humble and talk everything out. I was never the one to talk out a situation I was the one to be like, “Fuck you, I’m out.” It was easier to run away from a situation, be pissed, && go out with my girls. The typical ‘fuck him/her’ weekend, we’ve all done that. But it doesn’t solve anything, if anything it weekend, we’ve all done that. But it doesn’t solve anything, if anything it makes situations worse. I’m glad that now if there’s a problem or petty fight I can put my pride aside and try to work things out in an adult-respectful way. makes situations worse. I’m glad that now if there’s a problem or petty fight I makes situations worse. I’m glad that now if there’s a problem or petty fight I can put my pride aside and try to work things out in an adult-respectful way.
No mind games! No bring up OLD shit in a NEW argument; if you talked it out n the past DON’T bring it up in the present. Don’t let other people tell you how YOU should handle your gf/bf, (especially those ones who can’t keep their how YOU should handle your gf/bf, (especially those ones who can’t keep their OWN relationships in check!!) Know that relationships take a lot of work. No relationship is perfect, nope, not one That’s pretty much it. I mean there is a shit load more to it then that. But these are key factors and they’re major in mine && JayTee’s relationship. We know what DIDN’T work in our past relationships, so we don’t do those particular things. Simple, right? We think so. ;-)
- MeiShi <33
Michele & JayTee
Picture provided by Michele
Okay so I would have to say this was the best and funn-est [not a word] blog I've done! Thanx to all who participated... like michele said she is not a relationship expert. None of us our. We are speaking from our experiances... experiances do not make us experts just wiser in our choices and life! These questions may have been simple questions that everyone feels they have the answer to but everyone has a different opinion. My opinions I could go on and on! Lol and ON! But I hope these opinons and experiences help you and you learn something new. And I had fun doing this blog. Once again... thanx for those who participated.
*sorry about spelling its 1 am and I'm tired n hungry*
-also sorry about the adds not being up! I haven't made it to a PC yet... don't hate me :)
xoxo
-tay
-Size matters cuz I can make my own motion
-I look for swag in a man, presence, how he carrys himself and if he's able to take care of himself!
-I think guys ask girls nif they are freaks because girls put themselves out to be treated like she's a freak and ready to hump
They are many opinions... so I decided to ask some of y'all [twitter] so I can get different opinions! And here's what I got :)
Size or motion in the ocean?
@TMD462:
Thats a hard one but i would say if he he aint well endowed but has al the right motion and know how to use his tounge then i cant complain for long. However i would prefer at least 7inches, at least! But seein as aint had none in 3months and countin i think right now i will be happy wit anything, LoL!! But mos def size do matter!!
What is "sexy" to you?
@megaxave:
whats sexy to me is all together is a personal and physical thing physically it would be what any other guy thinks is sexy on a girl. from her hair, eyes, teeth, face, breasts, stomach, waist, butt, legs, and feet and then its the way a female will will ROCK IT or have the swagger to dress and be sexy with that all together.
Personally like as far as personality goes is her holding her own as a woman and being herself and confident that she is sexy and doesnt let anyone else make her feel otherwise. but then again doesnt toot her own horn about how fly she is and other females hatin on her and other garbage like that. basically a female that is secure in who she is and isnt afraid of what everyone is gonna think on the days she looks a hot mess.
i also think its sexy when a woman is smart, because she'll make smart decisions and have the wisdom not to take that route, what ever it may be. with that all together basically makes what i think is sexy.
- xavier @megaxave / twitter.com
When a male says to a female "ohhh your a freak huh?" What does he mean?
@biggcain24:
Well when I say that, its becuz its kinda like throwin it out there 2 see what she will say next kinda like see how much more info she willing to give up about herself, its used to trigger a response atleast that's how I use it
--biggcain24
what do you look for in a guy?
@xokishaxo:
What do I look for in a guy:
Someone that is passionate and dedicated as I am about what they want or do in life. Most importantly to care for my kids as if they were their own. My kids and I are a packaged deal. You could never have me and not my kids. Someone that is rough on the outside but sweet, gentle, and affectionate on the inside, and can make me laugh. Someone that will have my back as I would theirs. Trust and honesty..
How did you know he was the one?
@imaqueen:
Well...my Husby & I didn't get married until we were in a relationship for 14 years. Now 9 years later, we are still at it. I KNEW for a fact he was the one for me because even with alllllllllllllllllll his flaws...I still loved this man with every single fiber of my being. Its never been easy or perfect, but its mines. We have vested interests, such as kids(5), businesses(4), and oneanother. Also the dick was and IS supa dupa. And for me, that's a must. I'm hoping this answers your questin, Tay, but if not I would LOVE to elaborate! ;)
What's the biggest thing a woman does wrong for her not to be able to keep a man?
@dj_twomp_mp3ent:
Trust.. This only applys to ladies that have a good man.. Not all men are out there tryin to hit everything movin. If you got a good dude and you continue to not trust him eventually he'd feel like it's pointless in tryin to make you see he's trust worthy.
what makes your/a relationship successful?
@prettiesexi
Before I get started on this topic I have to say that I am not a relationship expert, this is just basically what works for Jaytee && I. Also, how I believe a relationship should work in order to survive. These are my own persona opinions, which I have developed over my past failed relationships. That and the many, many bad relationships friends and friends of friends have been in ol. With that said…
[TRUST] I feel that no matter what you’ve been through in past relationships should NEVER carry over to a new one. No matter what give that ‘next’ person a clean slate. Everyone deserves the benefit of the doubt, so unless they give you reason to be crazy-insecure girlfriend, DON’T. Be trusting. (i.e., I know people that hide their access codes from their gf/bf. I feel that the only reason people do shit like that is when they got shit to hide).
[RESPECT] This is MAJOR. You can’t truly be happy with someone who doesn’t respect you. And not just you, people in your life that mean anything to you. I was always taught to treat others the way that you want to be treated. Talking shit, being condescending, yelling @ each other… etc… nobody wants to be with someone like that. [Communication] This is VITAL. I’ve learned so much from JayTee [my boyfriend], he’s the most kind & caring person I know. He taught me how to be humble and talk everything out. I was never the one to talk out a situation be humble and talk everything out. I was never the one to talk out a situation I was the one to be like, “Fuck you, I’m out.” It was easier to run away from a situation, be pissed, && go out with my girls. The typical ‘fuck him/her’ weekend, we’ve all done that. But it doesn’t solve anything, if anything it weekend, we’ve all done that. But it doesn’t solve anything, if anything it makes situations worse. I’m glad that now if there’s a problem or petty fight I can put my pride aside and try to work things out in an adult-respectful way. makes situations worse. I’m glad that now if there’s a problem or petty fight I makes situations worse. I’m glad that now if there’s a problem or petty fight I can put my pride aside and try to work things out in an adult-respectful way.
No mind games! No bring up OLD shit in a NEW argument; if you talked it out n the past DON’T bring it up in the present. Don’t let other people tell you how YOU should handle your gf/bf, (especially those ones who can’t keep their how YOU should handle your gf/bf, (especially those ones who can’t keep their OWN relationships in check!!) Know that relationships take a lot of work. No relationship is perfect, nope, not one That’s pretty much it. I mean there is a shit load more to it then that. But these are key factors and they’re major in mine && JayTee’s relationship. We know what DIDN’T work in our past relationships, so we don’t do those particular things. Simple, right? We think so. ;-)
- MeiShi <33
Michele & JayTee
Picture provided by Michele
Okay so I would have to say this was the best and funn-est [not a word] blog I've done! Thanx to all who participated... like michele said she is not a relationship expert. None of us our. We are speaking from our experiances... experiances do not make us experts just wiser in our choices and life! These questions may have been simple questions that everyone feels they have the answer to but everyone has a different opinion. My opinions I could go on and on! Lol and ON! But I hope these opinons and experiences help you and you learn something new. And I had fun doing this blog. Once again... thanx for those who participated.
*sorry about spelling its 1 am and I'm tired n hungry*
-also sorry about the adds not being up! I haven't made it to a PC yet... don't hate me :)
xoxo
-tay
Friday, October 16, 2009
Letter to my son
I wrote this on 5/29/08, but i was going back threw my myspace blogs and thought id post this one on here! so i hope you enjoy! I just had to share my love for my son with ya'll
xoxo
-tay
Dear malachi,
i remember when i first found out that i was pregnant wit you... Even though you are a blessing to me i thought my life was over... I went into the doctors for a asthma attack and since i didn't have my period for four months the doctor took a test. When he told me i was pregnant i didn't beleive him and asked him to take it again. He came back and was like you are pregnant. That night i went home and got into a fight wit ez he is by best friend, your godfather, and the guy your named after... Within the next two days i told your nana i was pregnant by giving her my doctor papers she was very happy. Your papa was the most shocked...
On feb 13th 2004 my water broke... I was in the hospital for two weeks...I had you at 32 weeks.... Two months early... The doctors said you wouldn't breath on your own, that your heart would be bad, and that you would have brain damage. You came out perfect NOTHING wrong wit you. You would stop breathing because you ate to fast i'm actually suprised you don't now. Lol... I had to leave you in the hospital for five weeks. The first day i had to leave i cried so badly for you... But i was at the hospital everyday for two times a day to be with you...
Now you are 4 years old... Crazy just like your mommy and daddy... You talk to much and you talk back. Lol. Your my lil baby and i couldn't be happier that i have you in my life. Everything i do for you! Your are my motivation, my everything, my breath, my heart beat. You are my messenger... Malachi is biblical it means messenger... And thats exactly what you are. Because of you i got my life together and i make sure you have everything i didn't have.... Thats why you have all the spiderman stuff you could ever need lol... Thank you for being the angel that chose me to take care of you... I love you chunky tighs! Everyday is mothers day with you in my life...
xoxo
-tay
Dear malachi,
i remember when i first found out that i was pregnant wit you... Even though you are a blessing to me i thought my life was over... I went into the doctors for a asthma attack and since i didn't have my period for four months the doctor took a test. When he told me i was pregnant i didn't beleive him and asked him to take it again. He came back and was like you are pregnant. That night i went home and got into a fight wit ez he is by best friend, your godfather, and the guy your named after... Within the next two days i told your nana i was pregnant by giving her my doctor papers she was very happy. Your papa was the most shocked...
On feb 13th 2004 my water broke... I was in the hospital for two weeks...I had you at 32 weeks.... Two months early... The doctors said you wouldn't breath on your own, that your heart would be bad, and that you would have brain damage. You came out perfect NOTHING wrong wit you. You would stop breathing because you ate to fast i'm actually suprised you don't now. Lol... I had to leave you in the hospital for five weeks. The first day i had to leave i cried so badly for you... But i was at the hospital everyday for two times a day to be with you...
Now you are 4 years old... Crazy just like your mommy and daddy... You talk to much and you talk back. Lol. Your my lil baby and i couldn't be happier that i have you in my life. Everything i do for you! Your are my motivation, my everything, my breath, my heart beat. You are my messenger... Malachi is biblical it means messenger... And thats exactly what you are. Because of you i got my life together and i make sure you have everything i didn't have.... Thats why you have all the spiderman stuff you could ever need lol... Thank you for being the angel that chose me to take care of you... I love you chunky tighs! Everyday is mothers day with you in my life...
Saturday, October 10, 2009
double standard
Listening to "What these bitches want" by DMX and Sisqo. I love this song. DMX used to dominate the game... for hella long too! I hope it he gets better and makes a dope come back....
But what I've always wonder why is it okay for men to glorify what they do to women and how many females they penitrate, but why isn't it okay for us?
We should be able to date more than one man and not be called a hoe, slut, skank or what ever you call it. I know a lot of women who talk to more than one person and don't sleep with anyone of em. Maybe one but not all, but in 92% of the same situation [when a man is dating multiple women] he is sleeping with most if not all the women. And yet he's a pimp or the "man"!
Eff that double standard.
Someone please explain why this is still a issue?!
But what I've always wonder why is it okay for men to glorify what they do to women and how many females they penitrate, but why isn't it okay for us?
We should be able to date more than one man and not be called a hoe, slut, skank or what ever you call it. I know a lot of women who talk to more than one person and don't sleep with anyone of em. Maybe one but not all, but in 92% of the same situation [when a man is dating multiple women] he is sleeping with most if not all the women. And yet he's a pimp or the "man"!
Eff that double standard.
Someone please explain why this is still a issue?!
Thursday, October 8, 2009
Pu**y & Power
On my blog "Ladies, Ladies, Ladies" [posted: 9/30/09] I posted "Pussy is not the most powerful thing, the way we love is the most powerful thing" [which by the way I got from Mark Curry's Book I just worded it differently] and the quote above is a comment Deetra left. I love her for it because she makes a great point.
We as women do give birth to men and women so in that sense pussy is powerful... but to me its still not the most powerful thing. I'm trying to arriange my thoughts and words correctly so I don't sound contradicting lol. Okay...
We with our "yoni" [that's wat I call "pussies"] give life. That's powerful yes, but men do play apart in helping us give life. Without their sperm we would not be able to produce the lives we produce. Our yonis are able to go to expand and retract to give a human being life. Our yonis go threw penitration just to give pleasure to the woman they are attatched to. Our yonis are a beautiful thing! [Not visually but you know what I mean] lol I'm not trying to take away the power that they do posses.
What I like about the quote/comment I posted is... love is what makes the world go round. They way we love money, life, each other etc. Without the love of sex, life, or material things. Girls would not go around slanging their yonis to get what they want. Without the love of sex or one another, men would not be baring their seed in us for us to be able to give life. God gave us these sex organs and desires to reproduce and show love to each other. Love is the most powerful thing because without the love of... whatever it is that you love, we would not strive for that sense of uphoria/happiness that we strive for.
MmmmKay
But yeah
Follow shout:
@biggcain24:
PointBlank Ent rep! Buff nigga for no reason and a coo movie. buddie... ladies holla! Lol
@imaqueen:
She's great with the RT's and is a sweet gal! She also makes custom cards and invitations!
I wanted to do the shoutouts in video but my phone/youtube is not letting me upload. Ugh
till tomorrow y'all ;)
xoxo,
-tay
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