support and compromise

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This is a DM I received on twitter:
blog idea: being understanding and supportive of da others needs in relationships, ie. compromise.

Compromising and being supportive are BIG key in making a relationship work!
There is a difference in being supportive from sitting there and not saying anything but playing the roll of being supportive.
Us as women most of the time sit there and support our men but when we want to do something we offten get put on the back burner or end up having to give up what we want to do to SUPPORT our men... fellas we can't have this! If your lady wants to do something that you don't agree with but you see that she really wants to do it... COMPROMISE... meet half way... come to a equal medium... ladies we got to do this too. I see this happen a lot in the music industry... a girlfriend or wife does not want their spouse to do a certain show for groupie reasons. Don't bitch about it... met half way... don't go to this show but go to the next one or visa versa... or go for the first half of the show... it shows support and compromise... complaining about anything in a relationship leads to arguements. I'm not saying be submissive to your spouse but compromise... its easier.

Every relationship is 50/50! Nothing more nothing less. We need to support each other to be happy. No one wants to see their spouse fail... right? Being supportive is not being submissive. Sometimes being supportive is taken for granted but if you guys have agreements and have spoke to each other about what your long term goals in life are... it souldnt be that hard to support one another. Especially the person you love!

I hope this helps :)
xoxo
-tay